I didn't know I could say so much words of wisdom. I guess things are different when you have to think on the spot. When you're talking to someone and desperately trying to get him to see things from your point of view, you have to think super fast. I realised that's when many words of wisdom come out from. hahaha.. I can be a wise lady too ;)

Anyway, xuan's usual belief of things happening for a reason still holds true. Until the thing happened, you never know why it happened. Even when I'm helping someone look at things from a different point of view, I begin to see things from another view too. It helps me, at the same time that I helped him.

Someone said, even when things are impossible, it's possible.
Because 'impossible' says 'I m possible'

And someone said that life is full of IFs..
That's why it's spelled as L-IF-E..

I've never seen it in this light before. I feel so enlightened.. haha..
It feels nice to have someone teach me things for a change.

Anyway, I was thinking a lot when I went jogging today..
It struck me that, there are many things in which women overestimate themselves; and one of the mistakes women often make in a relationship is in thinking that she can change the man.
The man will never change; maybe temporarily but nor permanently. You may go into a relationship thinking that 'It's ok that he has this flaw now. He may change for me in the future.'

Abandon this thought, women. It's not going to happen. The man you see now will most likely be the man you see many years down the road. The change may come in the form of compromise; they may compromise a certain extent of their habits for you, but the habit will never go away.

Likewise, the positive side of him is likely to stay too.

I have to agree with some of the negativities in life. Like, how greedy all of us really are; how greedy I really am. I am a selfish and greedy girl. I want all the best things in life. I want someone to be tied down by me, but I don't want to be tied down by anyone. I want the freedom to choose amongst all the options I have, and yet I want everyone else to only have eyes for me.

Look at how greedy human really is.

If you keep focusing on the things that you do not have in life, most likely you will miss what you already have in your possession. Yet at the same time, people keep striving for the best they can have in life, which is why they want more. They are not contented with what they already have; and that is why at the end of the day, they may end up losing more than what they entered the picture with.

I don't know if my flame is still burning.. I don't know whether I really believe in what I believe. I do know that some of the things I used to believe in are no longer there. As I grow up, the black and whites are no longer clearly defined; grey areas are everywhere.

Who is to judge what is right and what is wrong? Who is to judge me? Who is to judge you?
So what if what I did was wrong? My rationale was right; and that's what more important to me.

Life sucks sometimes.. hahahha..
oh well~

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