or thinking of getting married..
something i always remembe from sansan's wedding..
i heard from jo, her father-in-law asked her husband..
'if you know that she is the right one, why wait?'
some people feel that they shouldn't get married yet, because they feel that they're still young. but is there any purpose in waiting? if you feel that this person is the right one, why do you want to wait..
just read cerise's blog, and i totally agree with what brennie said..
(hang on a minute. cerise, you went to meet brennie!! i haven't seen her in the longest time!!! how's she???!?!?!!)
ok back to the topic..
i think what brennie said is very true.. about the novelty of the new person you meet.. i agree, that there is the one person who always sticks by you, and is always there for you no matter what. the analogy about the strong flame and slow fire is very apt! it's the slow fire that brings out the best in everything..
people come into my life and people leave..
i guess i'm the kind who doesn't like to venture out of my comfort zone.. so i tend to only stick with the few friends whom i always keep in touch with.. like xianglooyun, ex-81 girls.. 02s81 gang, PS.. and that's about it..
and there are people whom i left out along the way.. and when i look back, we could've been closer..
see.. it's always the could-have-been, when it can be the we-are..
so always cherish those around you.. i guess as i grow up, i learn.. learnt to be mindful of what i'm doing now. cherish every single moment, and cherish the ones around you who always do things for you without asking for anything in return.. and cherish the friends who were always there for you when you just need a listening ear..
forget the ones who hurt you. forget the ones who spoke evil of you. forget the ones who didn't understand you.
and never never forget your family.. =)
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