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♥ a peek in xuan's life ♥
Friday, June 08, 2007

i was talking to a friend on msn, and she told me how pissed she is with her bf.. because he cannot rememeber what time she knocks off although she's been working for 5 weeks..
i mean, ppl might think that thats being plain ridiculous.. can't remember the working time then ask lor.. no big deal de ma..

but no no.. it doesn't work like this.. if the bf don't know the working time, it will come across to the gf that he can't be bothered to even remember.. not to mention that he has never picked her up from work, thats why he can't rememeber..

i was just thinking, who's the one being taken for granted here.. is it the bf or the gf?

bf being taken for granted: because the gf feels that he shld know her knock-off time. if he doesn't know, then it means that he simply doesn't care about it.. bf never pick me up from work before, no wonder he doesn't know my know what time i knock off. i mean, its just a number right!!!!

gf being taken for granted: the bf feels that knockoff time can be enquired from the gf anytime. since she's not gonna work there for long, then for what i remember.. i work everyday, already so tired still need to remember all these nitty gritty stuff..

so how? who's the one being taken for granted?
sighs... thats why r/s is scary.. ppl take each other for granted, and things get nasty.. why is it like that? why do people take the ones closest to them for granted? why does things change over time? how to get along with people for a long time when things are this way?

sighs... i hope things will turn out ok for them...

anyways, i like this message.. (i can't reveal where i saw it from.. not yet)

i miss you when something silly happens, and i think of how we'd laugh about it.
i miss you when i'm having a bad day, and i know your smile would cheer me up in a minute...
i miss you when there's exciting news, and you're not here to share the celebrating.
i miss you during ordinary moments, when just being together would make the day special...
i miss you... whenever we're not together!

so sweeet right.. hahaha..
tmr la.. tmr then i tell you guys where's it from..

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