as people grows up, you will realise that alot of things you believe in are no longer the same.. especially when it comes to relationships.. i wonder if this is what they mean by 'growing up mentally'
as i grow up, i realise that loving a person doesn't mean that you have to be with that person.. although that would be the most ideal situation..
and realised that there really is no such thing as 'being fair' in a relationship.. 'cause things are not fair to begin with.. 你不可能爱我就好像我爱你一样。 也不可能爱我如我爱你一样深。
所以，爱情一开始就不是公平的。
所以不需要以为对不起谁而感到内疚。这不是内疚，是施舍。
而且，如果是施舍的话，那我更不需要。这一点尊严我还是有的。
所以不需要因为觉得对不起某个人而放弃追求另一段缘分。这样做只会让你自己好过一点而已。对他而言，一点意义都没有。
以前觉得在爱情里,有很多事都不可以。长大后，慢慢发觉爱情不是绝对的对或错。 或者应该说，爱情没有对或错。你和我也不是神，没有权力决定一个人在一段恋情里的罪。
混蛋例外。
